How And Where To Meet Eligible Women
A lot of guys will undoubtedly dispute this, but really - there
are more eligible women running around loose today than there
are men! In fact, all you've got to do to prove it to yourself
is to take a look at the latest census figures relative to the
number of men versus women in this country.
We're talking about unmarried women between the ages of 18 and
60... Believe it! There are more women than men available! In
other words, there's at least one woman for every man that's
looking for a woman.
It's a part of human nature for people to want to belong to
someone of the opposite sex, and to have someone of the opposite
sex they even think of as belonging to them. The human
equilibrium cannot operate for long without inner-action with
other people, and for total health/adjustment in the world we
live in, not without inner-action with someone of the opposite
Perhaps because of the "women's liberation movement", the recent
recessions and high unemployment problems, the way the current
generation was brought up expecting everything all at once, the
increasing dependence upon drugs to give us pep or sooth our
nerves, and at least a dozen other reasons - the number of women
ending their marriages with divorce are out of hand... Indeed,
the latest figures on the number of divorces filed within the
past six months show that one out of every two marriages are
This is putting a lot of women in the marketplace, all of them
looking for men. They may claim that they "hate" men and that
they don't care if they ever see, talk to, or associate with men
again - but that's all "madness" relative to their divorces. At
the bottom line, every woman that has ever walked the face of
this old earth has or does want a man to call her own!
So, if you're a man and you're out looking for a woman. - One of
the first things you should get straight in your own mind is
what do you want a woman for, how long do you want her, and from
there, what kind of woman will it take to satisfy your needs
Your needs will vary with your moods, your financial situation,
and your own lifestyle or mental adjustment to the world around
Thus, when you meet an eligible woman that you think can satisfy
your needs, it would behove you first to do a little bit
"analytical reading" pertaining to her needs for a man. The more
you can "find out" what she's looking for, and satisfy her
needs, the easier it'll be for you to pick one that can satisfy
In other words, if she's on a "heavy duty trip" into women's
lib, and you want someone to move in with you to wash the dishes
and make your bed, you're liable to be wasting your time even
attempting to talk to this woman. On the other hand, if she's
just recovering from a divorce and seems to be trying to prove
to the world that she's the sexiest and best lover to come down
the pike in a month of Sundays, and you're out looking for a one
night stand, then this is probably the woman you should be
trying to pick up on.
What we're advocating and advising is simply this: The more, and
faster you can "read'' what a woman is looking for, the faster
and easier it's going to be for you meet the kinds of women
you're looking for... For sure though, it's up to you to
converse and/or appeal to any woman's wants if you want to make
any headway with her.
About meeting women, introducing yourself and becoming
acquainted... You've got to understand, and believe it for a
fact, that in this day and age, most women are almost always
looking for an eligible man...
Thus, when you see a woman that appeals to you at the bus stop,
don't be afraid to say hello to her and attempt to strike up
some sort of conversation. Women very rarely bite, and in these
times, women are not prone to put a man down for being friendly.
If you're looking for a woman, you've got to notice them
anywhere and wherever you see them - and then, open your mouth -
let them know that you'd like to get to know them!
The easiest and surest way of meeting eligible women is through
the social activities of your local "singles" clubs, such as
Parents Without Partners, Singles International, and Servetus.
Most such groups sponsor regular dances, dinner parties, rap
sessions, and any number of other activities designed to bring
divorced and/or single people together.
Lonely Hearts Correspondence Clubs are okay, but in many of them
you'll find the memberships inundated by women trying to sell
you something or with some sort of designs to deal you out of
your money. Then too, meeting someone via correspondence -
learning to love them as a result of what they write in their
letters to you - is sometimes disappointing and a hard situation
to get out of, when you finally do meet in person.
Most of the Date-A-Mate services are okay, particularly those
that employ video tape interviews, but the prices you pay for
their introductions are outlandish. Generally, the success rate
of these services - that of matching you with a woman that you
end up marrying, and staying married to her - is less than
10-percent. Some of them are just glorified "dating or escort"
Attending church in search of an eligible woman sometimes works
out - especially if the church sponsors dances, parties and
group outings - but in many instances, you'll find that these
church-going singles are either religious fanatics or neurotics.
The religious fanatic is a woman to run away from, as far as and
as fast as you can, unless you're on a heavy duty religious trip
yourself. As for the neurotics, they're generally hung-up with
guilt, anger, or martyrdom from previous experiences with men.
With a "swinging" personality, you can generally score well in
the bars and taverns. The thing is, you have to "find" the bars
or taverns that are frequented by the age group and kind of
women that meet your needs.
You'll find that the "higher class" women frequent the "motor
inn" and hotel bars. About all you have to do is drop by and
join in all the action when there's a convention or ing of
people from out of town in one of these places. It's then that
you'll find many of the "local eligibles" out on the town, plus
of course a lot of women from out of town who are looking for
men. In this kind of situation, most of the women are easy to
pick up on, and most of them are in no big hurry to make any
To find the action - where there's sure to be lots of eligible
women looking for men - look in your local paper... Look for
advertisements announcing square dances, neighborhood picnics,
travel tours, and of course, festivals or similar special
events. When you go to one of these activities, you've got to
mingle with people there - keep your eyes open for a woman that
may be the one you're looking for - and then, do your thing to
become acquainted with her. Remember, once you spot a woman
you'd like to get to know, it's all up to you whether you become
acquainted or let her slip through your fingers.
Another one of the surest places of meeting eligible women is
the evening classes at your local colleges. If you're not
familiar with their services, just give the college office a
call and ask them to put you on their mailing list for bulletins
and notices of up-coming classes being offered. Most colleges
are now offering any number of seminars, classes and even short
courses designed to help people rebuilding their lives after a
divorce. These sessions are almost always "filled to capacity"
with the majority of those attending, recently divorced women!
By the same token, for whatever reason, most divorced women
return to college to either finish their education or to take
some special course that will give them some sort of edge in
finding work. Check it out for yourself - it's almost a
phenomena the way divorced women are flocking back to college.
Finally, and if you have the time for it, you'll find an
unlimited supply of eligible women in the cafeterias of just
about any large office building, particularly government office
buildings. What you do is drop in and have lunch - become a
regular - look the scene over and "reach out" for one that
appeals to you.
Remember, spotting a woman you'd like to have is no big deal -
The important thing is forget your shyness, inhibitions, and
fears of rejections - Just walk right up to her and say
something like: Hello, I think I'd like to get to know you -
could we talk for a minute or too?
Try it! You'll be pleasantly surprised with the results! After
all, the women are wanting to meet you just as badly as you want
to meet them!